When you and your family moves to a new place, it can be an exciting experience. However, it can also become stressful for your child or children. After all, they will be leaving behind memories, and not to mention the friends that they have been together with for a long time. They can also be scared about going to a new school and they can even be anxious about meeting new people.
As
a parent, there are several things that you can do to help your kids cope with
the upcoming move. Supporting them through what may be one of the toughest
times of their early lives is part of your responsibility.
There
are some things to do in order to help your children even before the move.
First
of all, get as much information about the new place as possible. Tell your kids
about the new places they can visit and about the sights to see. Also, if
possible, tell your kids about the move months before it happens. This will
especially be helpful for kids that are already going to school. This will
allow ample time for them to adjust with their friends.
Do
not forget to always share information about your new home to your child. When
and if possible, take them for a trip to the new home and allow them to visit
some of the sights. Let them get a firsthand experience on the new neighborhood
and environment.
You
can also let them visit their new school.
When
moving day draws near, allow your child to go out with their friends or let
them have a goodbye/moving party. Let them do the planning or help them out.
Furthermore, assure your child that they will have every chance they can get to
keep in touch with their friends even when the family will be living far away.
When
you arrive at your new place, have your child have complete freedom of how they
want to decorate their room. Tell them it will be their special place inside
the house. You can also give some ideas on where to go first in the area once
you've all settled in.
Encourage
them to keep in touch with friends and family that are living in the area where
you once lived. Do not forget to listen to your child's feelings all the time.
And lastly, always be there for them.